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Sunday, July 08, 2007

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First impressions

How people look at you or judge you depends on first impression - your appearance, attire, behavior, body language and speech. All these contribute to how others perceive who you are and how they are going to "label" you.

More importantly, how others look or judge you depend on their string of thoughts or opinions, or as the the experts called it - stereotyping.

Example: people with flat nose are seen as innocent and gullible, while people with tattoos are labeled as gangsters.

Most of the time, these perceptions were wrong.

It is only through interaction would they realize how different you are from what they assume.

Digress a little.

Would you change yourself, behavior or appearance-wise, because of what someone else said?

You are who you are. Why care so much about what others say?

Never change for others. Change for yourself.

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